I get ahead of myself. The very first thing Al was to me was this: in my way in the detergent aisle at Target.
There he was, a bit stooped but every bit a gentleman.
There I was, a bit haggard but every bit needing some Cascade for my dishwasher.
I noticed his Marines jacket and cap firstly, which led me to, "Thank you so much for your service!"
"Ah, it was nothing." he told me, getting out of my way so I could grab some Cascade.
"No, really. Your serving means alot to me. Where did you serve?"
Al served in Okinawa, and he lost many buddies there. When I asked if he ever went back, he gave me a slight chuckle and a strange look. Why would he want to go back?
To me, war is a novelty.
To Al and his buddies who didn't make it back, war is a very dark reality.
His wife, Christian name Elizabeth, passed away 13 years ago. He carries her picture in his wallet. He calls her "Little Jewel" and he thinks about her every day. "There wasn't a woman better," he says:
Later, well after Al and I had parted ways forever, a Target employee comes running over, telling me an elderly gentleman wants to show me the photo book his oldest daughter had made for him for his 86th birthday. (He was a Halloween baby.) We met up in front of the ice machine, where he whipped out his iPhone and quipped, "I'm not so sure what I'm doing with this thing, you know."
Al has been written up in the local paper.
The main points, bulleted here for your convenience:
- Al is awesome.
- Al has a zest for life.
- Al likes the ladies.
Al's last words to me as we parted ways: "That baby sure is beautiful."
"Hey, check out this picture of me dancing. That's Sally. She likes to be dipped, so I dip her:
Keep on dippin' the ladies, Al, and thanks for making my day.
:)





11 comments:
I love this story! Good for you to spend the time finding out about him
Al IS awesome and just look at that picture of he and Elizabeth!
That's so awesome! ;) I'm glad he commented on Phoeb's because I saw her twinkling feet up in the air as you posed with the ladies man. Love it!! What a great man.
You are so adorable, I love it, just a wonderful story of someone paying attention to a little old man who perhaps really needed it for a day.
God bless you.
Oh, Thank you so much for writing about my Grandpa and being so gracious to him! God Bless you and Happy Thanksgiving!
You know you made his day right? Thanks for taking the time to engage him in converstation Rach- I'm sure it meant so much to him. I needed this reminder to slow down and remember what really matters in this life. I love your heart and miss you!
Lip gloss aside, Al is my Dad and I'm so glad you posted this story. We are very proud of Al.
That is so sweet. :) Go Al!
I know Al through family and he's so much fun to watch and read about. He truly enjoys life!
We need more Al's in this world... and more like you too! Thanks for the service you give to us by showing us how to be better people. His service is amazing as well. Gosh, I wanna be like you when I grow up! :)
love you for writing this......
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